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Best man steals bride from groom after confessing love in wedding speech

First comes love, then comes marriage — then comes one of the best man to steal the bride away from the groom on the wedding?

Well, such was the case for Desiree White, 32, who finally divorced her husband to marry her lifelong buddy and one of the best man at her wedding, Bryant, after he confessed his timeless love for her whereas toasting her nuptials to his then-best buddy. 

“He said, ‘I remember the first moment I saw Desiree, I loved her. I fell in love with her. I knew she had to be mine. I thought she was the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen in my life,” White, from Illinois, advised Kennedy News and Media of Bryant’s finest man’s speech throughout her 2010 matrimony. 

“He said, ‘She’s the best person I’ve ever met. I’ve never met anyone like her. Then I found out she already had a boyfriend and I thought I needed to find out a way to get her, but then I met [White’s ex-husband] and we became friends,” she recalled. 

Bryant White (right) confessed his undying love for his now-wife Desiree in his best man's speech at her 2010 wedding to his then-best friend.
“He said, ‘I remember the first moment I saw Desiree, I loved her. I fell in love with her,’” Desiree recalled her now-husband saying at her earlier wedding.
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The identification of White’s former partner is unknown. 

But she and her ex sat side-by-side, slack-jawed, as Bryant poured out his coronary heart in entrance of them and their 200 wedding company. 

“[Bryant] then just said, ‘Love you both — congratulations.’ It ended there,” she added, noting that her ears “turned red” with embarrassment after his admission. A wave of awkwardness then overcame the room, White remembered, saying, “Everyone was kind of laughing — and then it got quiet.”

And she was admittedly “confused” by Bryant’s confession, most notably as a result of staunchly platonic nature of their yearslong camaraderie.  

White, her ex-husband and Bryant had been friends for yeas before he admitted his love for her.
White, her ex-husband and Bryant had been pals for years earlier than he admitted his love for her.
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“Bryant and I met each other in class at high school,” White advised Kennedy News. “I had a boyfriend at the time and, because of that, I really wasn’t going to talk to other people.”

After displaying him an image of her then-beau, Bryant instantly acknowledged the child as somebody who shared the identical lunch interval as him. The three shaped a good buddies bond shortly thereafter. 

“Bryant and my ex-husband became best friends and, because they were guys, they did a lot together. They did everything together,” White stated, insisting that she didn’t harbor any romantic emotions for her now-husband throughout their childhood. 

“I set Bryant up [on dates with other women] so many times,” she stated. “I’ve been on double dates with him and I always tell people I wouldn’t have ever dated the person he was then,” White assured, including that, on the time, “He had a lot of growing up to do. I didn’t really look at him in that way.”

But White vividly remembers the look of affection that Bryant expressed when he noticed her adorned in bridal garb on the morning she was to tie the knot together with his pal. 

White claims she never had romantic feelings for Bryant during their friendship.
White claims she by no means had romantic emotions for Bryant throughout their friendship.
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“On the wedding day, I walked into the living room, right when I was done getting ready with my wedding dress on and my hair done. Bryant came into my parents’ house and froze and stared at me,” she recounted. 

“I said, ‘Hey, what’s up?’ He said I looked beautiful. I’d never had a moment of him looking at me like that.”

His adoring gaze apart, White proceeded on to her wedding and received married. Bryant, in flip, reportedly received drunk after which publicly professed his love for her. 

White claims she tried to sweep Bryant's profession of love
White claimed she tried to comb Bryant’s career of love “under the carpet,” hoping his revelation was nothing greater than a byproduct of his loneliness.
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But his unbridled unbosoming didn’t cease at his finest man’s speech. 

Later that night, White shared a dance with him whereas her new hubby minimize a rug together with her maid of honor. White recalled that whereas boogying with Bryant, he stated, “Why didn’t you ever give me a chance? I would have always taken care of you.”

“I asked him what he meant and he said, ‘Nothing. I love you, I love [White’s ex-husband],’ ” she recounted. “Then he got quiet.”

Following her large day festivities, a confounded White remembered hoping that she’d “misinterpreted” Bryant’s revelation of amour and tried sweeping his avowal “under the carpet” of her thoughts. 

“I’m sure it was because he was really drunk and lonely,” she recalled considering to herself on the time. “I knew, up to this point, that he had girlfriends that weren’t working out and he was kind of the third wheel.”

White and Bryant began dating shortly after her divorce.
White and Bryant started relationship not lengthy after her divorce.
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However, lower than a year later, when her marriage started to crumble as a result of her then-husband had adopted what she known as “a totally different lifestyle,” White’s relationship with Bryant took a sudden romantic flip. 

“When [my ex and I] broke up and divorced, I went through a depression and was really secluded myself. I just didn’t want to make an effort for anything,” she stated, noting that Bryant showered her with emotional assist in the course of the separation. “He’d ask me to eat with him or hang out and watch a show. He was trying to be there for me.”

Then, to her shock: “Bryant and I just kissed one day when we were hanging out,” stated White. 

“It was out of nowhere. When he kissed me, I didn’t stop it, then I kissed him back,” she added. “I was shocked that it was a good kiss. It felt good and natural.”

Shortly after White and Bryant discovered they were expecting their first child, the pair got hitched.
Shortly after White and Bryant found they have been anticipating their first baby, the pair received hitched.
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Almost instantly, the chums turned lovers. And, inside a year, she turned pregnant with their first son, Sawyer, who’s now 9, and the couple received married in 2012. 

“[Bryant] said, ‘I always wanted to marry you and this isn’t because of the baby, but let’s start this family right,’ ” White gushed. “We were always friends but when we were together [romantically], it was like nothing was hard to do anymore knowing we had each other.”

And White, now a mom to her and Bryant’s 4 boys, stated she’s dwelling the dream. 

“We love being parents. Twenty-year-old Desiree wouldn’t think she could be a mom of four kids,” she proclaimed. “She couldn’t imagine this is what my life would be like now.”

White says that being with Bryant has made her life
White stated that being with Bryant has made her life “better.”
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